Changes That Heal: The Four Shifts That Make Everything Better... and That Anyone Can DoZondervan, 1993 M11 24 - 267 pages Three ingredients of growth. Grace and truth ; Time -- Bonding to others. What is bonding? ; When we fail to bond ; Learning to bond -- Separating from others. What are boundaries? ; How we develop boundaries ; Crossing over boundaries ; When we fail to develop boundaries ; Learning to set boundaries -- Sorting out good and bad. What is the problem? ; When we fail to accept good and bad ; Learning to accept both good and bad -- Becoming an adult. What is adulthood? ; When we fail to grow up ; Learning to become mature adults. |
Contents
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Grace and Truth | 19 |
What Is Bonding? | 45 |
When We Fail to Bond | 79 |
What Are Boundaries? | 95 |
How We Develop Boundaries | 112 |
Crossing Over Boundaries | 121 |
When We Fail to Develop Boundaries | 146 |
Learning to Set Boundaries | 161 |
What Is the Problem? | 169 |
When We Fail to Accept Good and | 187 |
Learning to Accept Both Good and | 195 |
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